Healthy boundaries matter in a relationship for several reasons. First of all, healthy boundaries can help each person in the relationship feel emotionally safe in it. Having healthy boundaries helps the couple know where they stand with each other and where not to cross the line. Trust can be built and reinforced between the partners […]
EXCERPT: In a marriage with children, it may seem counterintuitive to not put the kids first, says psychologist Yvonne Thomas. \”However, it\’s actually healthier to make your spouse the first priority.\” This is because it benefits all of your family members. If you have an emotionally solid marriage with a good foundation, your children will feel
EXCERPT: By definition, decision-paralysis is when you can’t make a choice, no matter how hard you try. As the name suggests, you could feel ‘paralyzed’ to make a decision, leaving you feeling emotionally drained, trapped, and overall unhappy, says Yvonne Thomas, a Los Angeles-based psychologist. Though not in all cases, this usually happens when you have
EXCERPT: Though it may be second nature to ask a couple about having children, it\’s one of the most delicate discussions. After all, many people dream of having kids but struggle with infertility. Others hope to grow their family but want to resolve their financial issues first. Whatever the reason may be, it can be
As the melody of the start of your marriage, the first dance holds tremendous meaning for many couples. And when you finally choose what it will be? You might get goosebumps! As Los Angeles psychologist Dr. Yvonne Thomas, Ph.D. explains, a couple’s first dance song selection is so significant because it is a very personal and vulnerable expression of your feelings for each other, publicly displayed for their wedding guests.
